There are many myths about swinging. These myths evolve around society’s views towards swinging as an inappropriate practice that would tear apart any healthy relationship.
It is also thought of as an unhygienic practice, as there will be much exchange in partner for sex. It is said that swinging is like cheating on their partner.
The truth is swinging is only inappropriate if a couples relationship is unhealthy and unstable. Swinging would then be likely to tear the couple apart through insecurity, jealousy, or a lack of honest communication.
It is not OK for a swinger to cheat on their partner. Just like it is not appropriate for an individual in a monogamous relationship to cheat. But if you are a swinger, all parties agree that the relationship is completely open and honest.
Traditionally swinging is not about dishonesty, lying, or closed communication. Swinging is not ever to promote unsafe sex practice. Swinging is just for couples and individual who are looking for quality sexual and/or sensual experiences. It is not for frequent sexual encounters with anonymous partners.
Generally men who enter into a swinging lifestyle were previously in a relationship with a swinging partner. There are very few men who just purely interested in such lifestyle. They may be interested in finding another partner to swing with them or they may be just unhappy in their current relationship.
Many men would swing if only they could. For some they are not either hindered from the experience by their marriage, or if single, by their ability to find a woman for a swinging partner.
Men are not as macho as we all think they are. After all they are human. They experience loneliness, fear of rejection, and sadness like every one of us. A man, on convincing his wife to try swinging may experience unexpected jealousy and the feeling of loss when sheis having sex with another men. He may had fantasized himself in swinging, but just can’t imagine their partner with other men and women. Of course, the feeling of guilt about sex and pleasure, and sex roles also hold back men from swinging.
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Published on
March 6, 2008 in
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Tags: bi-curious, bisexual, bisexuality, friends with benefits, gay, lesbian, lifestyle, men, monogamy, relationship, sensuality, sexuality, women.
There are great benefits when couples decide to enter into a swinging lifestyle. Swingers get to discover their sexuality and sensuality in new ways that may not be accepted in traditional communities.
Swinging is a way for bicurious women and men to explore their potential bi sexuality without becoming involved in the lesbian or gay community where you might feel uncomfortable or unwelcome.
Being a swinger gives both men & women the opportunity to reject monogamy and have lots more sex.
Individuals can also explore and discover more about their sexual interests. Swinging can enhance a relationship and the commitment involved in the couple’s relationship.
For couples or anyone who wants to enter into swinging requires a strong level of trust and security. People watching their partner sexually involved with another is obviously very hot and arousing.
By becoming a swinger it also allows you and your partner to make lots of new “friends with benefits”.